Advice for my next stage of life and previous issues.

Hey everyone, this is a burn account so I can be 100% honest.

I’ll keep this as short as possible so it’s easy to follow and I’m posting here because I believe this is the best place to ask. I find this community much deeper than others.

I used to have a lot of friends but I always felt like they held me back, because I attracted the wrong people. I believe it it because of my (then) non judgemental attitude and quick to love personality, but as I kept progressing in life I realized that hanging around “losers” would not benefit me. Some of my best friends consisted of: – a junk food addict and drug user – a whore (actually) who was addicted to cocaine and cigarettes – many others who did not have my best interest in their hearts. The ones who smile when they ask you for money and are rude when you remind them to owe you back

I had a lot of decent people around me too but I never connected with them either. I’ve read a lot of books and I learned some truths such as you are the average of the 6 people you spend your time with and never be the smartest one in the room.

I also found that most of my “friends” would only ask me for favours.

6 years ago I made a rule to respect my boundaries and achieve more in life. It was, I will spend time face to face only and preferably in a group setting. In effect I’d give them my full friendship in person, face to face but not over text, Facebook, or phone. In person is the only thing I would accept. 1 unit of my time for 1 unit of yours.

That didn’t last long, the invites for in person meetups dried quickly and I found many instances where my best “friends” would go out but of course I wasn’t invited. Obviously they aren’t true friends.

Fast forward to today, I was right about me being the smartest in the room, at least in some ways. I worked 14-20 hours per day for the last 6 years and it paid off. I’m currently in my 30s, and I’m a multi millionaire, although I only keep 1 million in the bank, and the rest is in different assets.

My home is paid off, my car is paid off. I made it. I don’t have a boss and I just sold my previous business to be completely free of anything. I sleep when I want, wake when I want, and do what I want, which is exercise and training mostly.

I would never want to go back to those friends but my mind still thinks about them. They were not good for me, but we had some fun times.

My pain comes from being alone now, but I’m not going to reach out to the old friends, I actually hate them, they are parasites lol seriously they just used me, or at least that’s how I feel.

Should I reach out to them to tell them how I feel?

It’s hard to find new friends, but I want to be the stupid one of the group if I do. Is this right? I feel like I need to hang around people who make more money than me for it to make sense.

I feel like i should find a girlfriend but I want to hide my wealth, but from my experience and we all know it’s true, money attracts women. I’ve even had women try to pick me up when they see my luxury car, and I find it entertaining but I never take the bait. I want to find somebody wholesome. I might buy a cheap car and rent a normal apartment to find love and hide my wealth.

What advice would you give me? I’m extremely blessed but I feel cursed at the same time. I’m just way too smart and way too stupid at the same time.

Thank you for reading.

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Hey everyone, this is a burn account so I can be 100% honest. I’ll keep this as short as possible so it’s easy to follow and I’m posting here because I believe this is the best place to ask. I find this community much deeper than others. I used to have a lot of friends…

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