How to let go of the desire to be loved by a girl?

It’s a serious question.

Everything goes fine. I stay mindfuland undistracted by the worldly pleasures, ego remains in check

but then i have to go to some places daily where I see couples, men being loved by women. It doesn’t necessarily arise an emotion of jealousy, but of lack.

Especially when you know you’re not physically attractive, it intensifies this feeling of lackness and insecurity.

I think its hindering my spiritual progress. I’ll give you an example to explain: If I have a lot of clothes, I would not have the desire to reincarnate again just to have more clothes in the next life. If I have eaten all my fav meals daily, I’ll get bored of them, I might not have the thirst to reincarnate again to have those meals.

Similarly, If I have had been loved by woman/women, I might not hold on tight to this desire but since I’m not being loved, this desire is growing and might make me reincarnate. Help me cut it off.

P.S Some people might disagree with the food example, but it’s just an example

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It’s a serious question. Everything goes fine. I stay mindfuland undistracted by the worldly pleasures, ego remains in check but then i have to go to some places daily where I see couples, men being loved by women. It doesn’t necessarily arise an emotion of jealousy, but of lack. Especially when you know you’re not…

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